"My Wife Is Not Proud Of Me, She Doesn't Post Me, I Need Help"- Nigerian Man Cries Out For Help as he Narrates his story.....click to read story

 A Nigerian man has taken to social media forum

to rant about his wife he had been married to for

about two years. He wrote;"lve been married for

2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.

The problem is that my wife is not proud of me,

not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless. It started from our dating days..

We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted

people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if

the relationship was a secret. She never asked

me for a pin. I was happy she wasn't the

demanding type. When I proposed to her,

expected her to go over the moon, show

excitement and flood social media with pictures..

But no way, She was just mute and calm about

it"

"She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding

pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't

compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy

for that.. Few weeks later, she uploaded very

beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice

clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook

time-line without any caption about getting

married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came, She opted for a small quiet

wedding.. Although we could afford a big

wedding.

I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

 On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any

social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and

planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished

them HBD, wrote nice things about them. Back

home, all I got was a small get together, cake,

drinks and gifts butI would have preferred to be

acknowledged online as well.Image result for Nigerian man crying

On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say

anything on social media, she won't find it funny.She prefers everything we do is private. The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if  I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.

 I thought l should surprise my wife so I bought

her a new car(an SUV).. She acted so plain...

Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do. By all standards, I am handsome, tall, Fat,dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?

Why does she not want me to show her off? In all

fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far

but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not

how women ought to behave. I am getting tired

alreadyi have discussed this with her but she

doesn't wish to change".

What could be wrong with her? Kindly leave a

comment her